Double or Nothing
Ambrose Bierce defined perseverance as “the lowly virtue whereby mediocrity achieves an inglorious success.” Because the term mediocrity could well apply to us, Scott and I determined that perseverance was indeed the virtue missing in our previous failed adventures. This weekend, Scott and I determined to make not one but two attempts at “inglorious success” as we embarked on The Continuing Adventures of Scott and Lincoln.
Night One: Playing Ping-Pong in the Edward’s Activity Room
Last night, Scott and Kellen and I grabbed our ping-pong ball from last semester and headed for the Social Parlor. (Note: The Social Parlor is no longer to be called the Social Parlor. It is now to be called the “Edward’s Activity Room.” I make the distinction for the sake of accuracy, but the distinction does not affect the narrative.) We figured that if there were only two of us, then while we were playing girls could not approach us and we could not approach girls. But if there were three of us, the one not playing could watch the . . . game, of course. The first game was Kellen vs. me, leaving Scott to serve as our ball-boy. Kellen and I played furiously as we hurled Homeric poetry at one another. The goal was to hit the ball into crowded groups of single females who had assembled in the Edward’s Activity Room to meet single males who might happen to hit them with Ping-Pong balls, so that Scott could retrieve the ball and at the same time introduce himself. Unfortunately, the only free table was sufficiently far from the crowded groups of single females that the best efforts that Kellen and I put forth provided Scott with introductions only to crowded group of single males assembled to meet single females who might happen to hit them with Ping-Pong balls.
Next Scott and Kellen played Ping-Pong. Ping-Pong, that is, but only by a postmodern definition. Thinking that our purpose was to hit the ball anywhere rather than specifically at crowded groups of single females, they gradually made the net and table irrelevant to their game so that the only vague notions of “Scott’s side [of the room]” and “Kellen’s side [of the room]” governed their play. Their method did introduce Scott to a young man playing with a young lady at the adjacent table. If the young man had not been forced to be on his best behavior since he was on a date, a squished Ping-Pong ball would have ended the adventure for the night, but as it was, the dating couple merely moved over a couple of tables at the earliest opportunity. Scott and Kellen’s method procured me no introductions whatsoever.
About the time when Scott and Kellen’s postmodernism had taken them well past existential angst and into Derrida-like despair, Anna Beth walked in to save us. Here is what was supposed to happen: Anna Beth was to walk up and join Kellen; Kellen and Anna Beth were to go to the Snack Shop together. Some other ladies in the room were supposed to take their cue from Anna Beth, walk up and join Scott and me; Scott, some other ladies, and I were to walk to the Snack Shop together. Here is what actually happened: Anna Beth walked up and joined Kellen; Kellen and Anna Beth went to the Snack Shop together. Scott and I waited expectantly. Scott and I walked to the Snack Shop together.
Night One Continued: Getting Advice from Anna Beth
Our Ping-Pong plans having failed, Scott and I were fairly disheartened as we entered the Snack Shop. (Note: It appears that it is still acceptable to call the Snack Shop the Snack Shop.) But I did take the chance to ask Anna Beth for a bit of advice in case I ever do take someone besides Scott to the Snack Shop. I have a predilection for peach ice cream, but I have been concerned that ordering peach ice cream if I were with someone other than Scott would be a bad idea. Peach seems like such a feminine flavor that, well, it wouldn’t be a good idea. I asked Anna Beth what she would think if, hypothetically speaking (Forgive me, Kellen.), she and I were on a date and I ordered peach ice cream. She reassured me by saying that peach ice cream wouldn’t make her think any less of me. So I now know that it is acceptable to order peach ice cream on a date. Scott, on the other hand, now knows not to order a strawberry milkshake on a date because his came only half-stirred. Of course, we would both be willing to give up peach ice cream and strawberry milkshakes, given the opportunity.
Night Two: Ping-Pong in the Edward’s Activity Room
Remembering Ambrose Bierce’s promise that perseverance is the ticket to success for mediocrities like us, Scott and I headed back to the Social Parlor. (Excuse me; back to the Edward’s Activity Room.) That’s right, Scott and I are regulars now. We figured that we had little success last night because the girls assumed that two guys like us must already be taken. Showing up two nights in row made it clear that we’re still available, but probably not for long.
Tonight, Scott and I sent Kellen and Anna Beth out first on a softening-up mission. Though associating with Kellen was unlikely to help us out much, associating with so virtuous a lady as Anna Beth doubtless was a seal of approval on our eligibility. We joined them about an hour later. A rousing game of doubles ended with Scott and me victorious over Kellen and Anna Beth, a victory all the more remarkable since Kellen and Anna Beth are closer than Scott and I. (Don’t get me wrong; Scott and I are tight, but the difference should be apparent.) Our side did have an advantage: When Scott got tight halfway through, I rubbed out the tension; Kellen was prohibited from helping his partner. After our victory, Scott and I were hoping that two ladies would think to themselves, “There’s a guy I wouldn’t mind playing doubles with,” so we hung around for awhile, but . . . You’ve been reading this series long enough to know where I’m going. Don’t make me spell out the details.
Perseverance wasn’t all that appealing any longer, but persevere we did, all the way to the Snack Shop. It took Scott at lot longer to get coffee than it took me to get ice cream, so I had to wait for him for quite awhile. While I was waiting I sat at a table by myself, not feeling adventurous.
Posted 29 Jan. 2006 at 7:49 am | Permalink
Don’t give up, Lincoln and Scott. The right lady for you just didn’t happen to be at the Social Parlor (er..Edward’s Activity Room) this weekend. Be patient and keep trying….it will happen when it is time. :) Please keep us updated on your adventures!
Posted 29 Jan. 2006 at 1:41 pm | Permalink
Sighhh. Have I taught you nothing?!?
Are you five? Cause I thought you guys were in college.
First of all, hitting girls with ping-pong balls is mean. No girl wants to get hit with a ping-pong ball. If you want a girlfriend…or at least a date, go and ASK a girl out . Get some courage like the cowardly lion did off the Wizard of Oz.
Plus, no girl is gonna be thinking to herself, “Wow, those guys are pretty sick at ping-pong…let me go and talk to them.”
I think that you and Scott need to go out alone and get dates by yourself…because you can’t get dates together.
Peach ice cream?? I dunno…jk peach is fine.
Our side did have an advantage: When Scott got tight halfway through, I rubbed out the tension; …..excuse me. No need for that.
Posted 30 Jan. 2006 at 9:38 pm | Permalink
Um. Ever occur to you that the kind of girl that might be interested in your type might NOT be hanging out in the *ahem* Edwards Activity Room? I suspect she’s diligently doing something more structured, or at least conventionally productive, like studying, acting in a play, or practicing. Granted, hanging out at rehearsals and practice shacks might not introduce you to her, but taking a random art class or scoping out the library might.
For your next adventure, here’s a suggestion:
Set up camp at one of the tables on the first floor of the J.S. Mack Library (I assume it’s still the J.S. Mack Library and that you can still talk to girls on the first floor). Spread out a few books on a topic you would hope to find mutual interest in (remember, the bait determines the catch), a laptop, and a couple of pages of notes. Work diligently. Notice who else has a spread at the surrounding tables. Make eye contact and smile sympathetically with fellow library prisoners a couple times, but not too often. Too often makes it look like you’re there looking for girls. After about an hour, stretch, wearily stack a couple books, and check your watch. Casually approach the table of your choice and say (quietly - it’s a library) to its inhabitant: “Hey, I need a break and was thinking of stepping out for a cup of coffee to clear my mind. You’ve been here a while, too. Care to join me?” Offer to pay for her coffee.
If she’s worth her salt, she’ll be super-impressed at your mature dedication, thoughtfulness, studiousness, balance (you take breaks), gentlemanliness (is that a word?) and courage. It’s a kind gesture that’s sure to flatter her, but neutral and harmless enough that she shouldn’t be weirded out by it. You get the bonus of a girl with a brain, or at least perserverence.
Posted 30 Jan. 2006 at 11:13 pm | Permalink
Don’t listen to Becca; that’s too complicated. Just do it my way: lose a bet, hope she says yes out of courtesy, and then go from there. Think you can’t meet anyone worth while that way? You have clearly never met the divine Anna Beth.
Posted 1 Feb. 2006 at 7:19 pm | Permalink
I think Kellen’s idea is preposterous. (Yes, I just used a 4-syllable adjective. Shut your mouth.) But I definitely think Becca’s idea is pretty smooth. I mean, as smooth as you’re going to get in the J.S. Mack library 1st floor reading room. You should try it some nite and then blog and let us all know how it turned out. I think there needs to be a class for boys on the subject. I even have the perfect teacher in mind . . .
Posted 3 Aug. 2006 at 3:53 pm | Permalink
I agree with Becca. At least that’s the way a guy would get me to go out with him. Especially the free coffee break. :)
Posted 5 Aug. 2006 at 3:27 pm | Permalink
The only problem with Becca’s suggestion is that it excludes a girl who doesn’t drink coffee. But she was right about what kind of girl to look for.
Posted 6 Aug. 2006 at 6:18 pm | Permalink
That will not deter a girl. Everyone knows hot chocolate, chai tea, and/or ice cream can be bought at a coffee shop. It might, however, rule out a girl with an eating disorder. That’s your risk.
Posted 6 Aug. 2006 at 10:27 pm | Permalink
Ah, but a girl might not like the atmosphere of the coffee shop, preferring instead a more calm and quiet environment. And even a girl with no eating disorder might prefer discussion that doesn’t involve food or drink.
Posted 11 Aug. 2006 at 10:50 am | Permalink
um…I didn’t realize I was so prominently displayed in this post. (*blushes)
You know, the library/coffee thing would be a nice gesture…but I think I would be not so inclined to accept a date from some random guy in the library. AND even the most studious girls don’t go to the library on Fri/Sat nights!!!!…Taken from personal experience of course! (Just kidding, I’m really not very studious). You know, I think I prefer to accept a date out of courtesy (from someone I already know, of course) and then go from there. ;-) (see Kellen’s post above)